Category: : Bradshaw

[ARTIFACTS] Obituary keepsakes from January 1963

My great grandmother’s obituary produced as keepsakes by the local newspaper. It has been interesting to live as witness to the demise of the print journalism industry.

In Memoriam

HERALD-LEADER

Lexington, Ky. January 8 1963

Mrs. Martha B. Corman

Mrs. Martha Bradshaw Corman, 81, the widow of Suber* Corman, died at 7 p.m. Sunday at St. Elizabeth Hospital, South Fort Mitchell.

She was a native of Lexington. Mrs. Corman lived at 6 Floral Avenue in South Fort Mitchell and was a member of the Madison Avenue Christian Church there.

She is survived by five daughters, Mrs. Fanny Dean Mathews, Nicholasville; Miss Viola Corman and Miss Madeline Corman, both of South Fort Mitchell; Mrs. William Englett, Victorville, Calif., and Mrs. Joseph Neal, Kansas City, Mo; two sisters, Miss Susie Ghant, Nicholasville, and Mrs. Minnie Scanlon, Prineville, Ore; 12 grandchildren, and 21 great grandchildren.

The body was taken to the Allison and Rose Funeral Home in Covington.

It will arrive here at noon Wednesday and will be taken to Kerr Brothers Funeral Home where services will be held at 1:30 p.m. Thursday. Burial will be in the Lexington Cemetery.

One of two examples of obituary keepsakes laminated and serve as bookmarks.

A TRIBUTE

published in the pages of

THE LEXINGTON LEADER

LEXINGTON, KENTUCKY

JAN 7 1963

Memorial Obituary

Mrs. Martha B. Corman

Mrs. Martha Bradshaw Corman, 81, widow of Suber* Corman, died at 7 p.m. Sunday at St. Elizabeth Hospital in South Forth Mitchell.

A native of Lexington, Mrs. Corman had lived at 6 Floral Avenue in South Fort Mitchell and was a member of the Madison Avenue Christian Church there.

Survivors are five daughters, Mrs. Fanny Dean Mathews, Nicholasville; Miss Viola Corman and Miss Madeline Corman, both of South Fort Mitchell; Mrs. William Englett, Victorville, Calif., and Mrs. Joseph Neal, Kansas City, Mo., two sisters, Miss Susie Ghant, Nicholasville, and Mrs. Minnie Scanlon, Prinville, Ore.; 12 grandchildren and 21 great grandchildren.

The body was taken to the Allison and Rose Funeral Home in Covington. It will arrive here at noon on Wednesday and be taken to Kerr Brothers Funeral Home where services will be conducted at 1:30 p.m. Thursday. Burial will be in the Lexington Cemetery.

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Profile: Viola Murphy (1897-1928)

The only images I have found thus far of VIOLA MURPHY, my 1st cousin 2x removed, are in her early youth. She was the only one of her three siblings to live beyond 10 years. As it was, she died at 31yo from tuberculosis.

Viola was the fourth child born to Daniel J. Murphy, Jr., and Mary Bell “Mayme” Bradshaw, both of Mercer County, Kentucky.

Left-to-right: Susie Bradshaw (standing), Mary Bell “Mayme” Bradshaw Murphy (seated in chair), Maudy May Murphy (seated on porch), Daniel Murphy (seated in chair) holding Viola Murphy in his lap, and Martha Jane Bradshaw (standing). Circa 1898-99.

Just two and a half years before the birth of Viola, mother Mayme had a nervous breakdown. She refused to acknowledge the death of her 15-month-old daughter, Florence. Three years earlier, she had lost her first child, Surber, in infancy, also.

Parents Mayme Bell and Daniel Murphy lost 3 children in ten years.

Family records indicate Maudy May was handicapped in some way. Viola Murphy was only 2yo when her 8yo sister, Maudy May Murphy, died. Based on these facts, the family portrait on the porch must have been very close to the time Maudy May died. It was not a thing to smile in photographs but could this image have captured any more poignantly the layers behind those faces?

Baby Viola Murphy seated on lap of father Daniel Murphy.
Viola Murphy from a tin-type

My grandmother, Martha Jane, came to live with Mayme, her eldest sister’s family, to care for them all. The 13yo Martha must have had a special relationship with her very young niece, as she named her second daughter Viola.

Adolescent Martha Jane Bradshaw, my great-grandmother.

And, in further layers of complexity, my grandmother’s manuscript recounts a falling out between Martha Jane and Daniel Murphy, her brother-in-law. Something happened when Martha Jane lived with the Murphys. It was a hurt that Martha Jane carried into adulthood.

The tragedy and sorrow of the Murphy family household – what a burden for a 13yo young woman to carry as her own caregiving yoke. What an introduction to mothering after losing her own mother when she was only 5yo.

When Viola Murphy died June 6, 1928, she was living in Danville, Boyle Co, KY. She had married Willie Duncan. There are records showing two children, Myrtle Chestnut and Annabelle. This is an area needing further research as I have since found refuting evidence.

PHOTO: The Corman Carers

You might say educating is in my blood and these women were paramount in my own formation. Educators, living their Christian service and love instilled by the Shaker-educated youth of Martha Jane Bradshaw Corman, mother, and three of her daughters – Madeline, Viola & Fanny Dean. Two of the sisters taught school at the elementary and middle grades in northern Kentucky while the other, my grandmother, taught in one-room school houses throughout the Bluegrass region of Kentucky, specifically Jessamine County, with names like Sweet Home and Oak Hill.

Fully enjoying summers traveling, they invited the grandchildren-age generation of cousins on their annual summer trips across all these United States. The ORIGINAL aunt camp (*credit: S. C. Mathews – I see you Pebby). And, the original Ya-Ya’s, as we say in our family.

Photo: (left to right) Iva Madeline Corman, Martha Jane Bradshaw Corman, Viola Josephine Corman, and Fanny Dean Corman Mathews, my grandmother.

I remember visiting Frankenmuth, Michigan, as well as author and artist Gwen Frostic’s studio/visitor center in Benzonia. I have a beautiful collection of her work gifted to me, purchased by me and bequeathed to me through the estates’ transitions. It is on that trip with Aunt Vi & Aunt Madeline that I began with Christmas tree ornaments collecting as mementos from my travels.

It feels as though caring is woven in my DNA and was nurtured along by simply spending time with my great-aunts. My grandmother passed when I was in 4th grade living in Pittsburgh, PA, and my memories with her are fuzzy. When I look around my home, I pause to appreciate the things from my family, much of which ties back to them. Any artifact’s value perhaps felt priceless only to me, ultimately. It is the STORIES I crave and these hand-me-downs bring the memories and my soul to rejoice. I want to protect and preserve.

Maybe my heart’s call as service to others honors my ancestors, lives out in legacy. I can confirm I am a lifelong learner – and, most often the hard way. But, if it comes from the heart, is it ever wrong? Let me tell you, if you keep with these ancestry storylines I’m putting down – along the way, your heart will ache. Fair warning.

But, let’s first take a moment to reflect with some levity. Where my educators AT?!

Check out this excerpt from my WKU folk studies professor William Lynwood Montell’s 2011 publication, Tales from Kentucky One-Room School Teachers:

In 1872, the Kentucky State Legislature formally mandated its nine “Rules for Teachers”:

  1. Teachers each day will fill lamps, trim the wicks and clean chimneys.
  2. Each morning teacher will bring a bucket of water and a scuttle of coal for the day’s session.
  3. Make your pens carefully. You may whittle nibs to the individual taste of the pupils.
  4. Men teachers may take one evening each week for courting purposes, or two evenings a week if they attend church regularly.
  5. After ten hours in school, the teachers may spend the remaining time reading the Bible or any other good books.
  6. Women teachers who marry or engage in unseemly conduct will be dismissed.
  7. Every teacher should lay aside from each pay a goodly sum of his earnings for his benefit during his declining years so that he will not become a burden on society.
  8. Any teacher who smokes, uses liquor in any form, frequents pool or public halls, or gets shaved in a barber shop will give good cause to suspect his worth, intention, integrity and honesty.
  9. The teacher who performs his labor faithfully and without fault for five years will be given an increase of twenty-five cents per week for his pay, providing the Board of Education approves.

Okay, with so much to unpack here, is it even possible? Take a moment. Read it again. Read it aloud to someone. I wonder how much of this was still codified when my grandmother was a one-room school house teacher almost 50 years later.

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OBITUARY, 1953: SETTLES – Mrs. Mary Bell Settles

My paternal great-grandaunt – Mary Bell Bradshaw Murphy Settles

born 12 April 1867 Mercer County, KY – died 13 May 1953 Fayette County, KY

Lexington, Kentucky – Wednesday Afternoon, May 13, 1953

OBITUARY, 1953: Mrs. Mayme Belle (Bradshaw Murphy) Settles

SETTLES, Mrs. Mayme Belle, 85, of Midway, widow of Will Settles, died at 3:15 o’clock this morning at the home of a granddaughter, Mrs. William Lewis, 494 Sheridan drive, after an illness of two months.

A native of Mercer county, Mrs. Settle was a daughter of the late John T. and Fannie Bradshaw. She attended the Mercer county schools, and was a member of the Victory Christian church.

Besides Mrs. Lewis, she is survived by three sisters, Mrs. Susie Grant, Nicholasville; Mrs. Minnie Scanlon, Prineville, Ore., and Mrs. Martha Corman, Fort Mitchell; two brothers, Horace G. Bradshaw, Georgetown, and Will Bradshaw, Jessamine county; another granddaughter, Mrs. Kenneth Courtney, Midway, and three great-grandchildren.

The body was taken to the W. B. Milward mortuary, where services will be conducted at 11 a.m. Friday by the Rev. Sherman W. Swan, Midway. Burial will be in the Wilmore cemetery.

Bearers will be Lucien Bradshaw, Howard Bradshaw, Avon Bradshaw, Adrian Bradshaw, Howard Long and Elmo Baldwin.

While newspapers are struggling to survive as an industry, I’d like to take a moment to comment on the fact that I can recall the days when there was more than one newspaper edition in a day. I was young but I remember.

~ Other details I have learned ~

Ancestry.com and electronic resources helped me piece together more of her story to supplement the physical family artifacts I am organizing and preserving. An original manuscript and transcribed copies of my grandmother’s own narrative is chock full of her memories and reflections. This is a rich alchemy that swirls around me like the angels’ share or ether when I can piece together elements and bring ancestors’ stories to life.

Mary Bell was the third child and first female of eight children born to the Bradshaw parents, John T. & Fannie (a Murphy). Mary Bell “Mayme” was 16 years older than her youngest sister Susie. At 21 years old, Mayme married Daniel J. Murphy, Jr. in 1888 and over the next nine years birthed four children, only one of which lived beyond a decade.

  • Surber G Murphy (1889-1890) died in infancy.
  • Maudy May Murphy (1891-1899) died before age 10.
  • Florence Murphy (1893-1894) died in infancy.
  • Viola Murphy (1897-1928)

Family portrait on porch of unknown house, the Murphy family. Based on research revelations, I estimate this was taken circa 1898-1899. Seated: front, center Maudy May Murphy (lived fewer than 10 years), second row, mother Mary Bell Bradshaw Murphy, father Daniel J. Murphy, Jr. holding Viola Murphy (who was only 2 years old when Maudy May died). Standing: Susie “Mattie” Bradshaw and Martha Jane Bradshaw. Barely visible within this family portrait are layers and layers of grief behind those faces. And, a tragedy about to strike.

Certificate of Death, Commonwealth of Kentucky

Mary Bell, an 86-year old, twice-widowed housewife, died at 494 Sheridan Drive in Lexington, Fayette County 2:15 am on May 13, 1953, where she had been for two months. Her usual residence was in Midway, Woodford County. She’d had an operation in April by which she was diagnosed with carcinoma of the liver. There was no autopsy. The cause of death: carcinoma of liver. Interval between onset and death: 4 mons. She was buried in Wilmore Cemetery on May 15, 1953.

On another interesting genealogy note: Her sister-in-law, Eliza Jane Murphy, was married to Surber Corman and had two children before she died at 24 years old along with their unborn third child. Look for more about Eliza and Surber coming soon.

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Martha Jane Bradshaw (1881-1963), born Mercer Co, KY.

paternal great-grandmother

Oh, my Martha Jane. Her story will break your ever-loving heart. She lost her mom when she was five years old. She and her sister were raised by Shakers at Pleasant Hill, KY. Plucked suddenly from that idyllic, utopian children’s life to then carrying the weight of consummate caregiving for a family in crisis.

She was brought to apply all the learning of Shakers care full-time for the family of her eldest sister, Mary Bell Bradshaw Murphy. Martha was thirteen years younger than her sister, who needed help even before her mental breakdown.

Martha Jane broke off a romance after she was scorned by the mother of the man she loved. Martha Jane then married Surber Corman, a young widower with two small children after the recent tragic loss of their mother.

Martha Jane endured burying babies and children from more than one angle. She endured harsh conditions. And, her own tragic end is hard to conceive with the cause of death noted as “2nd & 3rd degree burns over 60% of her body,” according to the KY death certificate.

Traumas and taking on the yoke of someone’s tragedy lives in my DNA. I don’t need 23&Me to tell me that, even if they could. I can think of repeat experiences that fit that depiction.

More on Martha Jane Bradshaw in S1:E 23-E24-E25, coming later.